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Saturday 6 August 2011

Choice & Chance - 5 : HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY !!!

Spread The Chain Around -
Friends are the special ones in your life. They are the ones you connect with, not by the ties of blood but the bond of heart. You choose them over millions of others only because you can identify some part of yourself in them.
Who is a Best Friend ?


A Best Friend!
A friend that really cares,
All my secrets I can share!
There when i need a hand!
There to understand!
When I cry,
She will hold!
If I am away,
She will call me day by day!
If I need her at all,
She'll be there to stand tall!
Anything I say will be heard,
She will listen word by word!
If I am late,
She will open the gate!
As she looks in my eyes,
The sparkle she realizes!
She is the one that cares,
And the one that's there!
That's a best Friend!!

Come the first Sunday of August and all the young people around the globe, who are even remotely aware of the significance of the day, indulge in a joyous celebration of Friendship Day. With Friendship Day coming up once more, you too must be waiting enthusiastically to celebrate the holiday? Friendship Day celebrations take place on the first Sunday of August every year. The tradition of dedicating a day in honor of friends began in US in 1935.  The tradition of celebrating Friendship Day began in 1935 when the US Congress decided to dedicate a day in the honor of friends. Though it is not known exactly what were the reasons that went into the making of this day, the retrospection of the world scenario of those times can lead us to an understanding. With the devastating effects of the First World War still showing and increasing hostilities, mistrust and hatred between countries providing the perfect conditions for another imminent battle, there was a greater need for friendship and camaraderie not only among nations but also among individuals. Hence, the US Congress decided to designate the first Sunday of the month of August as Friendship Day and with a formal proclamation in 1935, officially declared the occasion a holiday dedicated in the honour of friends and friendship. Since then, celebration of National Friendship Day became an annual event. The lofty idea of honoring the beautiful relationship of friendship caught on with the people, particularly the youngsters all over the country, and in no time Friendship Day became a highly popular festival.  Today, Friendship Day is enthusiastically celebrated every year by many countries. The occasion is observed on the first Sunday of every August. The traditional celebrations include meeting with friends and exchanging of cards, flowers and gifts. Many social and cultural organizations also celebrate Friendship Day by hosting programs and get togethers. Special performances by rock bands are also organized in countries like the US to enhance the jubilations.  The popular customs of Friendship Day includes handing over roses, especially the pink and yellow ones. The day is observed with great exhilaration and merriment, with friends throwing parties, gorging on lip-smacking dishes and drinking hard . Yellow Rose was chosen as the official flower for Friendship Day festival because it symbolizes joy, friendship, delight, promise of a new beginning, "remember me", and "I care". Florists say, a yellow rose with red tip stands for friendship and falling in love.  In the present technologically advanced age, people find it convenient to order flowers online especially for friends staying in other cities.  

Friendship Day Gift Ideas :
Friendship Day Gifts play a significant role in strengthening the relationship you share with your loved ones. Friendship Gifts must therefore be selected with love and care.  Many colorful friendship bands hit the stores much ahead of Friendship Day. Instead of the conventional wristbands, one can go for the friendship bracelets which come in attractive designs for both boys and girls. Cute and attractive show pieces are another extremely popular Friendship Day Gift. Depending upon your choice one can go in for glass, metals, wood, paper mache or crystal show pieces.  Chocolates makes a yummy and delicious Friendship Day gift for foodies. Go in for a hamper of your friend's favorite chocolate to bring that million dollar smile on his/her face. 
Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really meet; and two others at first speech are old friends. 

Friendship Day in India

Friendship Day has come to be celebrated in a big way in India. The noble idea of honoring friends and friendship has really caught on with the youth in India and one can see the festival being enthusiastically celebrated by the youth especially, students. Friendship Day celebrations are particularly marked in schools and colleges in India. Children make Friendship Day Cards or other special gift to thank their friends for their wonderful presence in their life. In several colleges, special programs are also organized to mark the occasion. Most of these programs and events intend to give youth an opportunity to dance and sing with friends and have a good time. Just as in US and several other countries, Friendship Day has been commercialized to a great extent in India. Days before the festival, gift marketers run an extensive campaign to lure the people to buy cards and gifts for their friends. Restaurateurs too try to entice people by offering special discounts or holding bashes. With more and more people getting hooked to the net, many people also choose to chat with their friends with the help of Internet. Sending SMS and Friendship Day e-cards is another popular way of greetings friends. 

A story for knowing what is Friendship exactly -

Friendship Forever


Two inseparable friends, Sam and Jason, met with an accident on their way to Boston City. The following morning, Jason woke up blind and Sam was still unconscious. Dr. Berkeley was standing at his bedside looking at his health chart andmedications with a thoughtful expression on his face. When he saw Sam awake, he beamed at him and asked." How are you feeling today Sam?" Sam tried to put up a brave face and smiled back saying, "absolutely wonderful Doctor. I am very grateful for all that you have done for me. "Dr Berkeley was moved at Sam's deed. All that he could say was, "You are a very brave man Sam and God will make it up to you in one way or another". While he was moving on to the next patient, Sam called back at him almost pleading, "promise me you won't tell Jason anything".
"You know I won't do that. Trust me." and walked away.
"Thank you " whispered Sam. He smiled and looked up in prayer " I hope I live up to your ideas...please give me the strength to be able to go through this..Amen"

Months later when Jason had recuperated considerably, he stopped hanging around with Sam. He felt discouraged andembarrassed to spend time with a disabled person like Sam.

Sam was lonely and disheartened ,since he didn't have any body else other than Jason to count on. Things went from bad to worse. And one day Sam died in despair. When Jason was called on his burial, he found a letter waiting for him. Dr Berkeleygave it to him with an expressionless face and said" This is for you Jason. Sam had asked me to give it to you when he was gone".

In the letter he had said: " Dear Jason, I have kept my promise in the end to lend you my eyes if anything had happened to them. Now there is nothing more that I can ask from God, than the fact ,that will see the world through my eyes. You will always be my best friend........Sam".

When he had finished reading Dr. Berkeley said " I had promised Sam to keep his sacrifice he made a secret from you. But now I wish I didn't stick it Because I don't think It was worthy it" .
All that was left for Jason while he stood there was tears of regret and memories of Sam for the rest of his life .

Very Sweetly , I wish All My and Mine Friend's friends - a very happy Friendship Day !!


Luv Me Twist Hai !!! Vishnu Feels The Luv :


" Haan toh kaun batayega ki kal kaun sa topic start huwa tha class me ? "  College ki pehli class subah - subah hi lagi thi jisse jyadatar ladko ka dhyaan raat ki neend me hi tha . Par bhai padhaai toh padhaai hai , karni toh padegi . Aur koi aur padhe na padhe , sir ka favourite student Vishnu toh padhega hi . Sawaal poori class se puche magar jawaab chayiye Vishnu se . 
" Vishnu ! tumhi batado ki kal humne kya kiya tha ? " Sir apna chashma apni naak ke niche khaskhaate huwe bole . Unki yeh aadat thi ki jab bhi woh sawaal ke jawaab ka intezaar karte , apne chashme ko apne chehre pe hilaate rehte . Baal hilaane ki toh umar hi guzar chuki thi unki . Waise bhi safed baal kitni roshini denge . Sir vishnu ko khada karte hai taaki woh unhe bata sake ki kal class me kya padhaaya gaya tha . Vishnu aaj last bench par baitha tha . Roz toh aage baitha karta tha phir aaj last kyu ? Woh isiliye kyuki aaj woh class me late se aaya tha . 
Vishnu dheere - dheere khada hoker bade hi vishwaas ke saath jawaab deta hai - " Woh hara waala dupatta kharidlo aap . Aap par jyada accha lagega . " Vishnu ko nahi pata tha ki woh kya bak raha hai . Khoye huwe khyaalon me , neend me soye huwe woh class me baitha toh tha par soch raha tha seeta ke baare me . Bolta toh usme seeta ka zikr nikalta . Dikhta toh sirf seeta ka chehra aur woh dupatta jo usne kharida nahi . Sir ka bhi dimaag chaundhiyaa gaya - " Arre ! kya anaap - shanaap bak rahe ho . Class ka topic pucha maine , kisi shopping list ka saamaan nahi . " 
Sir ki tej aawaaz sunke vishnu ko hosh aaya ki woh kya bol diya tha aur kaise bol raha tha - " Sir ! nahi wo actually......mera sar dard kar raha hai isiliye ........ " Ab jo bol diya so bol diya , par aage kuch na bole isiliye vishnu ne bhi apni zubaan bandh kar lii . Sir ka gussa dekhne laayak tha - " Kya dard beta ? Dard hai toh class ke baahar jaao . Get out of my class ! Right now ! " Vishnu aur kuch na bolke , class se baahar chala gaya .


Vishnu ko laga ki yeh shayad itna hi khumaar chhaaya hai uspe par pyaar ke effects ki toh yeh abhi shuruvaat thi . Sote - jaagte , uthte - baithte usko sirf dikhta hai toh seeta ka wahi confused sa chehra . Wahi muskaan jo seeta ne mall se jaate waqt vishnu ko dekhke ki thi . Aisa ehsaas pehli baar huwa hai vishnu ko . Na toh padhaai pe dhyaan de paa raha hai aur na kisi aur kaam me . Seeta ne uspe jaadu sa kar diya tha . 


Class me dhyaan gaya par ab hostel me kya hota hai - 


Vishnu ke do hi toh dost the shaher me  - ek Kunal aur ek Ravi . Kunal ek simple ladka nahi hai . Ravi bhi seedha ladka nahi hai . Kunal dono ka bodyguard jaise rehta hai kyuki woh dekhne me kisi pehelwaan se kam nahi hai . Ravi kabaddi - vabaddi toh nahi jaanta hai par love - kabaddi me uske dono haath chaaku hai . Gin ke yeh teen log rehte hai hostel ke ek hi room me aur ek - doosre se kuch nahi chupaate ,  Sacchi dosti jo hai teeno ki . Class me teeno hi the aur kunal aur ravi dono ne vishnu ko dupatta shabd bolte suna bhi . Puchtaach toh karni hi hogi vishnu se . Waise abhi room me ravi apne bed pe baithke magazine padh raha hai . Vishnu darwaaze pe khada hai aur baahar na jaane kya dekh raha hai . Vishnu ki aankhein khuli huwi hai par aankhon me seeta ka chehra chhaaya huwa hai isiliye kuch dekh nahi paa raha hai . Saamne se na jaane kitne saathi hostel boys guzarke jaa rahe hai aur hans bhi rahe hai par Vishnu ko koi dikhe toh sahi . Aankhein khuli huwi hai par kuch dekh nahi sakti . Kabhi bhi darwaaze se koi khoobsurat nazaara nahi dikhta hai aur woh bhi boys hostel ke darwaaze se . Dikhta hai toh sirf saamne waali building me rehne waale hostel boys ke geele , rang-birange tange huwe kacchhe . Ajeeb toh yeh hai ki sabhi kacchhe sahi haal me nahi hote , kuch toh phate huwe bhi hai . Par Vishnu ko toh un saamaan me bhi kuch aur hi nazar aa raha hai . Woh sirf baahar taakta jaa raha hai . Ravi itne der se lete huwe magazine padh raha hai par uski ek aankh Vishnu pe bhi hai . Tab se Ravi yeh baat notice kiye jaa raha hai ki Vishnu baahar ghoore jaa raha hai aur woh bhi bina palak jhapkaaye . Jaise koi haseen khwaab dekh raha hai khuli aankhon se . Ravi bhi ek ladka hai . Usko itni jaankaari toh hai ki kab ladka adhmari haalat me khadha rehkar anjaani cheejon ko taadta rehta , kab ladka sunta kuch nahi aur sawaal karo toh toh paglo jaise bakwas karne lagta hai , kab khuli huwi aankhon se bhi kuch dekh nahi paata hai . Ravi in saari baaron ka ek solution nikaalne ke liye Vishnu se hi baat karne ka sochta hai . Par uske liye Ravi ko Vishnu ko hosh me laana hoga . Woh uthta hai apne bed se . Bed ke ek sire pe kisi ki zuraabe rakhi huwi hai , matlab socks . Un socks se itni badboo aa rahi hai ki mara huwa chuha bhi behosh ho jaaye . Magar ek khooye huwe aashiq ko hosh me laane ke liye yeh socks perfect hai . Woh unhe dur se haath me lekar Vishnu ke piche jaata hai taaki uske naak tak inki sadi huwi badboo pahucha sake . Usne socks ko dheere se Vishnu ke naak ke paas laaya aur socks ki sugandhit badboo se Vishnu chauk sa gaya . Socks ki mehek lete hi Vishnu ki naak bandh ho gayi aur woh bedhadhak hosh me aa gaya - " Yeh kya kar rahe ho ? Hataao inhe ! " Hosh me aane pe Vishnu room ke andar aata hai aur bed pe jaaker baith jaata hai  - " Kya huwa ? Tum jaante hi na ki yeh socks Kunal ke hai , phir humaari naak pe itna zulm kyu ? " 
Ravi kuch bolta ki Kunal bhi room me aa jaata hai . Kunal , ravi aur vishnu room - mates hai . Sirf room-mates nahi balki teeno best friends bhi hai . Vishnu ke mann me kya chalta hai aur kab chalta hai yeh baat ki fikar dono ko rehti hai . 
Ravi seedhe - seedhe Vishnu se bol deta hai - " Toh janaab ! kaun hai woh ladki ? Uska hai naam kya ? " 
Vishnu ko nahi pata tha ki uske mann me jo chal raha hai woh Ravi itne jaldi samajh jaayega . Woh ravi ki baat sunte ekdum se hairaan ho jaata hai aur aise dikhaane ki koshish karta hai jaise ki kuch nahi huwa hai . Woh turant bed se uthkar baahar ki taraf badhta hai yeh kehte huwe - " Kya bol rahe ho ? Kaun ladki ? Kiska naam ? " Bolte - bolte Vishnu jab darwaaze se baahr nikalne hi waala tha tabhi Kunal ne uska raasta rok diya aur uske kandhe pe haath rakhte huwe Vishnu ko waapis andar laata hai . Vishnu apni anjaan baaton ko aage badhaata hai - " Tumhe shayad koi mis-understanding huwi hai . Aisa kuch bhi nahi hai ! " 
Kunal ne Vishnu ko phir se apne aur Ravi ke beech me baithaaya taaki is baar Vishnu bhaag na jaaye . Ravi apna sawaal phir karta hai - " Ab chhupaane ki bhi zaroorat nahi hai . Bataado kaun hai woh ladki ? " 
Vishnu abhi kuch bolna nahi chahta kyuki abhi tak toh usne us ladki ko sirf ek hi baar dekha hai aur naam tak nahi jaanta - " Hum kuch chhupaa nahi rahe hai tum logon se yaar . Yeh kya ladki - ladki laga rakha hai ? " Haste huwe bol raha hai par chehre se jhooth saaf pakda jaa sakta hai Vishnu ka . 
Abhi tak sirf Ravi hi puch raha tha par ab Kunal ne bhi baat chhedh di - " Ravi ! yaar Vishnu ko pareshaan mat karo . Ab woh nahi bataana chahta toh isko force mat karo . Jab isko lagega ki hume bataana chayiye toh khud bataa dega . " Kunal ne bilkul sahi raasta pakda Vishnu se baat ugalwaane ke liye . Dost - dost waali baat se hi Vishnu kuch bolne waala tha aur Kunal ke bolte hi Vishnu shuru ho jaata hai -- 
" Waise maine kaheen padha tha ki jab tumhe pyaar hota hai toh tum kabhi aisa nahi sochte ki tum usko khoo sakte ho , tum kabhi aisa nahi sochte ki woh tumhara dill tod sakta hai , tum kabhi aisa nahi soch sakte ki tum kabhi usko apne se dur jaane de sakte ho , tum kabhi aisi baatein soch hi nahi sakte ho . Humaare case me abhi yeh sab nahi huwa hai isliye hum kuch keh nahi sakte abhi . " 
Jab dono Vishnu ko aisi baatein karte sunte hai toh dono yeh sochne lagte hai ki - " Abey ! isne aisi kitaab kab padhi ? " Lekin aisa Vishnu ke saamne nahi kaha . Ab aage kya bolna hai , yeh dono ki samajh nahi aaya toh Ravi ne hi baat aage badhaayi - " Tum jaise baat kar rahe ho , waise toh koi bhi behra keh sakta hai ki tumhe pyaar ho gaya hai . " Yehi baat ko thodaa aur badhaaya Kunal ne - " Haan ! aur jaise chehre pe expressions de rahe ho , waise toh koi bhi andhaa keh sakta hai ki tumhe pyaar ho gaya hai . " 
Vishnu bed se uthkar phir room ke darwaaze pe khadha ho jaata hai aur waha se baahar ki taraf dekhne ko kehta hai - " Woh baahar aasmaan dekh sakte ho tum log ? " Kunal aur ravi ko laga ki aasmaan me koi nayi cheej aayi hai toh dono turant uthke darwaaze pe pahuchte hai aur upar dekhne lagte hai . Vishnu yeh jaanta hai ki Ravi aur Kunal dono ko uski baat samajh nahi aayi toh woh dono ko upar ki taraf dekhne ko kehta hai , aasmaan me - " Yeh aasmaan hai na , aasmaan , hum aasmaan dekh paa rahe hai par kya hum kabhi aasmaan chhuu sakte hai kya ? " Bahut hi gehra sawaal kiya vishnu ne dono se . Ravi toh thoda - thoda samajh gaya par Kunal abhi - bhi atka huwa hai - " Agar flight pakde toh chhuu sakte hai , kyu ? " Kunal ko yeh koi majaak lag raha hai par Vishnu bilkul bhi majaak nahi kar raha hai is waqt kyuki baat uske dill ki hai --
" Humaara matlab woh nahi tha . Hmm....Dekho yaar  ! humne abhi tak usko sirf ek hi baar dekha hai . " 
Kunal - " Kisko , Aasmaan ko ? " Baat samajh na paaye aur uske upar aise sawaal kare toh yeh baat saaf ho jaati hai ki Kunal ka pehla maala khaali hai . 
Khair ! Vishnu apni baat phir shuru karta hai - " Usse pehli nazar me pyaar me ho gaya , aisa kehna galat hoga kyuki abhi hume pakka nahi hai ki yeh pyaar hai yaa bas ek infatuation . Abhi hum chahte hai ki kuch din aur dekhein ki hum sach me pyaar me hai yaa nahi . Par tab tak please tum dono bhi hume samjho . Kuch din ke liye is topic pe koi baat na karo , please ! " 
Ravi maanta hai jo vishnu keh raha hai aur haath aage badhaake haan bhi karta hai . Kunal ke mann me ek aur sawaal hai jo woh puchna chahta hai . 
Ravi - " Ab kya huwa ? " 
Kunal darwaaze se baahar haath dikhaata hai aur saamne waali building ki taraf dekhkar kehta hai - " Yaar ! woh underwear kiski hai jispar likha hai ' Mr India ' ? "   

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